(know how to exactly ace your first date & 3 habits of attractive women)

You think it went well. You had a nice chat. There was a little flirting going on. He seemed comfortable with you.

Then it was time to go. You could tell he was ready. The quiet stretches grew longer. He kept shifting in his seat.

You kept waiting for him to say, "It was nice meeting you," and stand up, but he seemed unsure how to proceed.

Is it really that hard to end a date?

You wonder.

Which Is More Important: The First Impression or The Last? 

That first moment you see a man feels like the most important moment of the whole date.

With just one glance, you take in a ton of information about him. You see what he's wearing, how he holds himself, whether he's smiling.

If you're favorably impressed, you'll put more effort into the date. But that first impression is only an impression. As you get to know him, you may find yourself smiling and laughing and warming to his unique way of seeing the world.

As the date comes to a close, you wonder if he might have potential. You won't know for sure until you see how the date ends.

And the end of a date is much more difficult to get right than the beginning.

Last Impressions LAST

Even over the course of a short coffee date, you have a lot of chances to adjust someone's first impression of you.

But the last time they see you is a defining moment. He won't know at the beginning of a date whether he wants to get to know you better, but he'll know by the end.  He'll be looking for clues in the way YOU say goodbye, to figure out how about him. you feel

Entrepreneur Mika Salmi puts it plainly:

"First impressions count, but last impressions are forever."

So how do you make sure things end on a high note?

Is there something you can say to make the ending smooth and positive?

3 Ways To Exit a Date Gracefully Sometimes Guys Need Help Ending Dates

More than that, guys don't always know when a date should end. Short and sweet first dates pack a punch. They leave you feeling curious about each other.

So don't feel as if you should leave it up to him.

Look for the moment when the energy of the date begins to flag, then start giving him cues that it's time to wrap up.

Those cues should not only signal that your time together is coming to a close, but they should also let him know whether you'd be open to seeing him again.

Here are 3 ways to wrap up a conversation while also giving him a green light

1.) Future Plans: "So What Have You Got Going On This Weekend?"

If the date is going well and you'd like to see him again, you can wrap up the date by asking him what he's got planned for the rest of the day, for the weekend, or for the upcoming holiday.

Your goal isn't to get him to include you in those plans. It's to shift gears, so you start thinking about what's happening next.

After he tells you about his plans, you can respond with something like, "Sounds fantastic. Hope you have an awesome time." That sends a clear message: it's time to say goodbye.

2.) Follow-up: "Flick Me a Message Sometime With The Name of That Band

If you talked about an interesting book or a favourite band or a great TV show, ask him to send you a link so you can find out more.

Suggesting a follow-up gives him an excuse to contact you again. It's an invitation to keep chatting, even if neither of you are sure whether a second date is in the cards.

3.) Compliment: "Your Story Made My Day."

When a guy hears, "It's been nice meeting you," he knows he's being dismissed.

He doesn't want it to be NICE.   He wants it to be awesome! Fun! Cool! ANYTHING but nice.

If you really like this guy, avoid telling him that he's really nice, or you had a nice time, or it's been nice. Give a compliment that packs a punch.

Tell him that something he did, or something he said, made your day. That comment lets you revisit one of the most memorable moments of your time together and lets him know that he's made a favourable impression.

Then you can start gathering up your coat and purse.

He may or may not follow up on the lead you just left him. But he'll bid goodbye with the understanding that you've left a door open.

And sometimes that's all guys are looking for:

An open door that makes it easy to see you again. Men aren't either interested in a woman's personality or her body. They're interested in both. Men see a woman as more physically attractive when her personality is highly attractive.

Being beautiful on the inside animates you in beautiful ways. The way you smile, the way you gesture, and the way you interact with a man make him perceive you as incredibly attractive, even if you may not come across as model-material in a mug shot.

So, which personality traits are most irresistible to men?

Which qualities make you radiate from the inside out?

3 Habits Of Highly Attractive Women Are As Follows:

Habit #1 - Highly Attractive Women Express Warmth 

Warmth is one of the most attractive personality traits of all. Men perceive emotional warmth as highly feminine. (Coolness or detachedness are seen as masculine traits.)

A woman's emotional warmth reassures a man that she will be friendly and receptive, rather than critical and rejecting.

Emotional warmth is also associated with affection and love. For a man who's looking for a relationship, nothing could be more important.

Habit #2- Highly Attractive Women Are Curious

There's nothing worse than getting stuck in conversation with someone who's only interested in talking about themselves.

Many dates turn out to be an endless cycle of self-promotion, as your date tries to convince you that they're a catch.

Then there are the dates that feel like interviews. Your date peppers you with one question after another. He doesn't really care about your answer; he's just going through the motions.

It's such a relief to meet someone who's actually interested in you.  Someone who sees something intriguing about you. A person who's curious about you will ask you thoughtful questions and listen to your answers with care.

You may find yourself reflecting even more deeply as you speak. As you explain your thoughts, you learn new things about yourself.

The same goes for men.

When a woman is genuinely curious about a man, he's able to relax and rise to the occasion. He forgets, for the moment, that she's a romantic prospect he's supposed to impress. He can just be himself. Her curiosity gives him permission to shine.

When a man has stepped into his best self in the company of a woman, he never forgets it.

Habit #3- Highly Attractive Women Practice Nonattachment

There's enough stress and pressure in our lives. We don't need more of it when we date.

But dating and relationships can be highly stressful. We can feel pressure to play the game rather than reveal our true feelings. We can feel the stress of having to hide our flaws so we're seen as perfect.

There are so many expectations, so many rules. Which is why it's so delightful to be with someone who doesn't care where it leads.

This person is present in the moment with you. They're focused on this experience, right here, right now. Sure, they'd like it to go somewhere. But they're not attached to the outcome.

Nonattachment is the ability to let go of the need to control things. You allow whatever happens to happen. You avoid assigning labels like "good" or "bad" to your experiences.

Maybe you've noticed that you're more successful with the opposite sex when you already have a boyfriend, or when you're not actively hunting for a romantic partner.

You're more successful because you're not attached to a goal or outcome.

Men sense that you don't want something from them. You're not expecting anything. You're okay if you say goodbye and that's it.

There's no pressure. There's less stress. There's a feeling of spaciousness and ease. These three qualities-warmth, curiosity, and nonattachment-don't just work in dating. They work in all areas of your life. Warm, curious people who aren't driven by an agenda succeed in business, in leadership, and other areas of life.

So don't just cultivate these traits for the sake of being attractive. Cultivate them because they make your life richer. And if you get more male attention as a result, consider it a side benefit!

There is a "secret ingredient" that not one in a thousand women knows about...

And it's the biggest factor that determines whether a man just "likes" you...

...or if he sees you as "The One."

You see, this "Secret Ingredient" is so important to a man that no matter how attracted to you he is, or how strong your chemistry is...

If it's missing, he'll never be able to truly give his heart to you...

And he will always have an unshakeable urge to seek out a woman who has this one "Secret Ingredient". 

On the other hand, when you know this powerful "secret ingredient" you gain some insightful tools and you won't believe how effortless, passionate and affectionate your relationship can be.

This is going to change the way you perceive dating or approach a man. Discover "His Secret Obsession".