Reasons Why Men Lose Emotionally & Romantic Interest So Quickly?

(7 common reasons why your relationship lack emotional and intimate connection, here's why...) 

Most women would have experienced their men losing interest emotionally and romantically in them and pulling away. It's like one day your man is devoted and so attracted to you and the next thing you know they're looking for ways to avoid you. And in times together, he seems distant whenever you both try to spend time together. This could be like watching your break-up slowly fade away. This feeling where the man starts to pull away and lose interest is really painful and if you wish to find out reasons why this happens, then you're in the right place. Relationships can be improved with effort and understanding. These are the most common reasons why your guy/man doesn't seem to get emotionally and romantically attracted to you. 

1.) Life Has Become Stressful For Him

When life becomes too stressful, a lot of our priorities and the important things in our lives begin to take a backseat. When something stressful or unexpected comes up in a man's life, then that's where all of their time, focus & energy goes. So just imagine, you're a beautiful woman in a true relationship with someone and your relationship is perfect, gets all the attention and love it deserves. But if something unexpected comes into your life, then that's going to drain all of your time, focus and energy. So this is what often happens with men-and it's not that they are losing interest in you-it's that their time, focus and energy have been placed on something that needs more of their attention right now than relationship.

Now, this can come in unexpected forms, whether it's work problems, financial problems or their own life problems. It doesn't quite matter exactly what it is, but whatever the circumstances that have taken place, he has to give priority to it. So it's really important to understand here that it's not that he is losing interest in you as a person, it's just that he is currently more focused in these external circumstances, and thus it will feel like he's losing interest in you.

Let us consider an example to get brevity. Imagine having an only child, it gets all the attention and love that you can give it. Now imagine having a second child, the love and attention gets split between them. It's not that the first child isn't loved as deeply anymore, but it's simply that there are now more priorities to take care of. This could look or feel like the first child isn't loved as much anymore, but really it's just the love is being spread out.

Now this is similar to what happens when something stressful comes up for a man - it's not that he is losing interest in you, he is just simply putting his attention and energy onto something else. If this is the reason, then don't worry about this too much because once things are back-on-track and he is in a calm frame of mind, things will come back to normal.

2.) You're Trying To Force It

When you're both serious about your feelings is when you should move forward in a relationship. When a woman starts to get too emotionally involved, she will try to force love on the man. This might not be the case for the man and he might want to pull away by this action. If a relationship feels too forced a man is going to lose interest. He doesn't want to force things, he simply wants a natural connection.

Consider an example to get a brevity. He wants you to be like "Best Friend" that he loves and shares intimacy with. I mean, wouldn't it be weird if your best friend kept trying to force your relationship to work? Love can not be forced, it just comes naturally.

Now, this doesn't mean that you shouldn't put any effort into the relationship. Just like building a house, effort does need to be put in to create the masterpiece. However, if you really don't feel like building/working and you are trying to force a beautiful piece, it's not going to come out as you would expect it to. Why not take this same approach to your relationships. If you're trying to force love, then take a step back and let the natural progression of the relationship take place.

"A perfect relationship isn't perfect, it's just that both people never gave up."

-Unknown author

3.) Efforts Don't Match

This can be the reason as well for him to lose interest in you. If he does his best and you don't. it won't be long before he starts to get distant or pull away.

Effort in relationships do not have to be of the same value, it just has to be significant enough to count. You've just gotta give back. If not, the relationship will look pretty one-sided and resentment will start to build.

4.) You're Not Supportive

It doesn't mean you're not caring or don't feel empathy. What I mean is that you've got his back especially if he is one who's obviously doing his best to do right by you.

If your words and actions rarely show support or any interest in the things. If you don't support through your talk or action in the times needed then he might start to feel that you really do not care about him. And this could lead to distant him from you or might even lead to an end of a relationship.

5.) Disrespect

Nothing makes people fed up more than constant disrespect. Being made to feel inferior, being made to feel like nothing, having your importance questioned and being made to feel like your presence, opinions, self-respect and being doesn't count for much... anyone would find a way to get out of a relationship under circumstances such as this most certainly men would, too!

6.) Difference in Intimate Relationship 

If the gap in the intimate drive between couples. It affects the relationship adversely and it won't be long before the man shuts down. If the woman has a higher intimate drive, or if he has a intimate sex drive, something's going to get terribly wrong as some point. This is why it is better to always have that conversation early enough. What if I told you, there is something that can

potentially change the way you perceive your intimate relationship with your partner.

And it has NOTHING to do with how attracted he is to you...

There is something you can learn to make him feel comfortable, relaxed and "ready" for you with nothing but a smile and a subtle change of voice here's how...

7.) The Initial Excitement is Gone

We all know about the cuddle, hangouts, honeymoon stage of a relationship, but the question is what actually makes it that?

It's when both partners are creating for each other, creating nice dates, creating memorable experiences, just simply creating and experiencing new things that didn't exist before. What happens is your man starts to feel like he's done enough as he gets the woman he desires to create or experience new exciting things begins to diminish.

So, this begins to look like the man is losing interest, which is partially true, because he is losing excitement. There was such excitement at the beginning for both. Once a relationship passes through a beginning phase it starts to lose interest, try to find a way to end the conversation, and eventually the relationship comes to an end.

The question is "Why"?

Know what your and he's wants are. What happens is we often forget to acknowledge our wants and end up feeling resentment. I don't mean that you fulfill and experience your wants by ignoring or not involving your partner.

I want you to be able to see what I see. So, you can see what drives him, what he cares about, and what he needs to thrive in a relationship with you.

It's finally time to tap into what he is already obsessed with. And channel that built-in desire toward the relationship you share with him.

How?

Well, know here.

Discover a whole new world of possibility, and claim the happiness you deserve. So there you have it! I hope these tips & insights will help you build a relationship you desire.